How can Abused Women build self esteem?
65How can Abused Women build self esteem?
Women should first and foremost remember that they are special, rare, unique a pure work of art. We are worthy of the best and nothing less will do. We have to learn to love ourselves because if we can't do that; we are truly lost. Self love is the greatest love other that the love of God. If we can't love ourselves; no one else will. We have to see ourselves as a bright and shinning star that is worthy of all of the finer and best things and treatment in this ole world. Nothing less will do. We have to remember beyond a shadow of a doubt no matter what anyone says of does to us; that we are just as good or better than the worst. We can never look down on ourselves no matter what the situation looks like. We have to believe and hope for the best for ourselves and know that it will come to pass.
“Enthusiastic Woman you are”
Extremely radiant and well put together.
Never give up on your hopes and dreams.
Trust in your self worth.
Have faith as small as a grain of mustard seed.
Unique work of art from start to finish, “You”are.
Strive to reach the mark of your high calling of God.
I see royalty in “You”.
Aspiring woman you are”
Simply Beautiful and Magnificent, “You” are.
Take the time out to see the self worth in you.
I pray favor and blessings over your live.
Caress your heart, no one can love you, like you.
It will take a little of time and work, but you are have to remember that you are worth it. Learn to love "You". Know that you deserve to be loved and happy. For every thing that you do to make yourself happy, give yourself a pat on the back. Every step that you make at learning to build yourself esteem the closer to success you will be.
Barbara Hart
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That is your opinion. You are so right, you don't know me or where I have come from. If you feel that it is only to sell my book tht is your preference also. I lived the life of abuse for many years. I can only offer my suggestion, if you have a problem with it that is totally up to you. I poured my heart out to be a blessing and help to others that has had to deal with abuse. I can't ease the pain and I never said that I could. You take my words and use it as a insult to me but, as I said that is your choice. I can offer all of the necessary things and ways to help others but, if they are not willing or ready to make that step, they won't. I didn't tell my story of twenty five years to knock or hurt anyone, I had a heart to reach out. Yes I spoke of God, it is up to you or anyone else that will do that. I do know that if the abused don't have hope left for themselves they may be lost. If you have a problem with my way of doing things that is your problem. I did it the only way that I could because I was the one that was on the inside looking out. I had to deal with it. I have not tried to insult anyone or to knock anyone down. I stretched my hand and heart out to help whether it does or not. Maybe you took it as an insult but, I pray that I was a blessing to someone else. I told my story, it is up to the next to do the same if that want. You or no one else had to walk that un-necessary mile in my shoe. I don't need to read the other writtings to tell what I had to endure. No I can't say that it will stop the pain, remove any of the scars but, atleast I told my story and it is just that my story. I thank you for your comment.
Ann you are a blessing to me and I appreciate you sharing from your heart. Every blessing to you. Thank you.
CheryleJ
Thanks for the comment and the encouraging words. I wanted to give hope where there may be none. If you already have hope I wanted to add a little more to it. If I can't pick you up, I most certainly don't wan't to knock you down or hurt you. My intentions are to spread some sister to sister love, hope and help.
Beautiful! Thank you for this hub. It touched my heart. I was abused by my grandfather and I had childhood amnesia, some of it I remembered and I guess some of it i tucked so far back. I am now at 42 realizing my bad dreams were real. learning to grieve. Thanks again.
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prey 19 months ago
while i do appreciate the importance of the topic at hand, and that you would like to help abused women, from one who has lived both areas am quite shocked.
You state your motive is to help those with words, but you only speak of the word of God? A little bias you must agree. You offer no safe way of getting out, or therapy for the post traumatic skills needed not even coping mechanisms on how to maintain absenteeism from the abuser nor how to explain to the children, why we left daddy. I am not suggesting you should know all this, nor do I assume who you are.
You want me to tell myself to remember I am worth it while I bleed because I am not allowed to leave my home, even for stitches.
In your prayers today, join me in one, I really hope you do. Pray no woman in need of safekeeping reads your hub that knows no other form of help.
In fact your way is the least common form of any help, yet again you offer no options, is your way the only way?
Must be because you kindly left another link for all of us which leads to a word press blog to sell your book.
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this saddens me then angers me